Haley woke up this morning at 12:30 throwing up with a terrible stomachache and a fever. She feels horrible. And it's never a good time to get the flu. But on the day of your first kindergarten concert that you've been eagerly anticipating for weeks, have chosen your party dress to wear six days ago, had both grandmas and an aunt coming from out of town, a special dinner planned at a restaurant and have been asking each day of the last week and a half if it's finally time. . . it's just flat heartbreak. And if you have to be the Momma to break the sad news that you aren't able to go, well that's just plain heartbreaking too.